All of these dating sites are scams to get your money. I'm a 6'4" model, athlete, comedian, look like in my 20's and not a single message. I went to upload several different pictures of mine and they've all been rejected by their "team". The one or two real people are old fat attention seeking single moms hiding behind pictures of themselves from when they were younger and middle aged husbands cheating on their wives. You could find one of the "real ones" in a cheap bar. Not the type of place you'd look for a soul mate.