Believe the bad reviews you read here. The good ones are nothing more than a sad attempt at an AstroTurf campaign by The Clique to put the people they run off back into their place. Reminds me of high school days, when one of the nerdy kids upset one of the popular kids and they'd all come gunning for him/her. That's what you can expect from this site.
You might find some nuggets of helpful information here and there, but you're going to have to wade through the miles of emotional garbage and sophomoric nonsense to find it. Honestly, they should just rename the site, "Bored Dependas", and be done with it. Because that's what it is. Bored military wives, with little control over their lives, bullying other military wives.
However, if you are entertained by grown women behaving like teenagers, this site will give you hours of entertainment. Grab some popcorn and get to lurking. Just remember not to engage.