I joined last nite, and they took my credit card info, didnt ask for my aarp card to get a cheaper rate, didn't ask. Me how long I wanted to join, just did a update on my acct and charged me $36.00 for 6 months then I read this page where all the complaints were, so this morning I emailed them to cancel me, I wrote 3 times today and they have done nothing, it says if you notify them before 3 days is up. They will cancel it, and return your money, I won't mess with them, they better get with it. I can't believe AARP would get messed up in something like this, I like aarp, the magazine and everything is good, but don't waste your money on this dating site, it's a waste of time and money, it's sad, not a way to find a mate!