These processing fees are monies the companies try to recoup. Usually the credit card companies charge a fee to the company that accepts the credit/debit card for payment. The credit card company charges a percentage of the payment. Now the company that submit charge may tell you about the resources needed to process the charge (computer time, human capital, overhead, etc.) but that is already allocated in the original charge. They don't mind taking money from you, but let someone charge them a fee and they come back too you.

That's what they do, watch your account they will get you. They are greedy. BPM is not their only site, when I called the question was which dating site are you talking about

Because they don't have the budget to cover the cost of payroll. The site is a HUGE rip off! They will also continue to charge your credit card after you've cancelled your membership so be sure to let you credit card company know.