Hello Bob M. Although I am not aware of the amount of successes or unsuccesses, if any, on the reviews I had written about, but I can tell U truthfully and honestly that they were of my own direct experiences with them. Now, as far as your question~~~I can say I haven't found a dating site that is worth a dam or safe from being scamed. I have been asked to get verified, (which is a bunch of "BS") watch Girls/Women on Camera, and then have some not showing up as promised! To top things off~~I had found that I had joined unwanted sites because of promises that I would not be charged a penny for completion of these tasks. All I have to say to U Bob, is U be better off going to a Mp, Amp, or just get an Escort. At least then U know where your $$$ is going and U WILL GET WHAT U WANT FOR THE $$$ GUARANTEED!