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Overview

A Foreign Affair has a rating of 3.33 stars from 25 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally satisfied with their purchases. A Foreign Affair ranks 28th among International Dating sites.

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Top Positive Review

“I appreciated the services offered”

Marco L.
4/25/22

Let me say their service is recommendable. I appreciated the discounts given to platinum members for their express mail service. And after only sending one letter I got a quick reply from a highly educated, sweet filipina lady. Thanks to the staff who were helpful in giving me tips and bits of advice to find my lady. I have had a delightful experience so far without exceptions. Congrats to your service... if there is one on the internet I can recommend without any doubts then it is certainly a foreign affair.

Top Critical Review

“I lost a lot of money”

Eathon J.
3/16/24

I'm currently using only Jst4HookUp Trust me, there is a huge difference from A Foreign Affair! You gonna see it in an instant. When the girls are real they act differently: their girls are still gorgeous, but they are not around all day and night and their responses are relevant and logic. I'm so happy to forget about all the nonsense that happened to me on A Foreign Affair! If you stick around for long enough you will see how A Foreign Affair works. They have absolutely fraudulent, disgusting and blatantly horrible methods of work. But I recommend believing all the negative examples and not repeating our mistakes. I lost a lot of money! The site pays the majority if not all the girls for luring you in and chatting with you. There are just a few decent dating sites these days who don't do it.

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Thumbnail of user josephs2838
1 review
14 helpful votes
June 20th, 2022

I had the most enjoyable experience in Cebu. I would recommend their service to anybody. I've never seen anything like it. I've heard of dating clubs back in the states. But there's no way you can compare them to what I experienced. This was something totally different. The entire staff were very well-organized and customer service orientated. I can wholeheartedly endorse this agency to all the single guys who are seriously interested in courting a nice filipina woman.

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Thumbnail of user eathonj
1 review
2 helpful votes
March 16th, 2024

I'm currently using only Jst4HookUp
Trust me, there is a huge difference from A Foreign Affair! You gonna see it in an instant. When the girls are real they act differently: their girls are still gorgeous, but they are not around all day and night and their responses are relevant and logic. I'm so happy to forget about all the nonsense that happened to me on A Foreign Affair!
If you stick around for long enough you will see how A Foreign Affair works. They have absolutely fraudulent, disgusting and blatantly horrible methods of work. But I recommend believing all the negative examples and not repeating our mistakes. I lost a lot of money! The site pays the majority if not all the girls for luring you in and chatting with you. There are just a few decent dating sites these days who don't do it.

Thumbnail of user allenv82
1 review
12 helpful votes
June 30th, 2023

The women I met through their service were all beautiful, so sweet and friendly, like nines and tens. They made me feel very masculine. I felt empowered and valuable a lot of times. They were writing me afterwards. I'd say 90% of them were ready to get into a relationship and marriage. Their culture was so receptive. It made me embarrassed of American culture and how we are. It was a great experience. I would recommend it to the single men out there.

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Thumbnail of user frankc1959
1 review
5 helpful votes
September 15th, 2023

Emails are $9.99 to both send and receive. If the woman sends pictures you pay per picture to view. $3.50 per pic, $6.95 per vid. A two way exchange can easily cost $40...that's 2 emails. You may not include any personal info like phone number or email address as it gets filtered by the system. If you find someone you want to meet, they will charge $275 to arrange the date. This all makes sense when I read another review that the girls are actually paid for replying to emails. Which explains why nearly every return email comes with 5 pictures. Overall this smells like a scam.

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Thumbnail of user thierryl27
5 reviews
12 helpful votes
March 1st, 2024
Verified purchase

I requested the assistance from Loveme.com regarding one profile. I was in contact with one of their profile Dan Yan ID *******. On her profile she claims to be a plastic surgeon in Shanghai from China. She contacted me at first the 15 Dec 2023. The 29 Dec she told me " I work as a surgeon in a hospital in the Orlando area in USA. And yes, I do have a house in France, which I visit occasionally. "

I went 3 times on internet and I found nobody who operate as a surgeon plastic with such a name. And I verified all the pictures listed and registered as a surgeon in Orlando.

I requested them to investigate her as she has another profile here: https://www.zendate.com/en/people/#*******. Zendate.com was Asiandate.com owned by the group Anasatasia.com. So I was surprised that Loveme.com share a lot of profiles with Anastasia.com. One Zendate she contacted me also and repeated she was in USA. It was the first red flag.

They sent me a short video from the woman where she explains she is in china so no explanation why she wrote me twice she was working in USA and she was showing her ID but too far away to read something. Second red flag

She wrote me last time in January and refused a Skype call. I called Loveme several time, sent them many emails for assistance and recently I even requested a refund twice but all the time they promise me to send a communication to China...3 months almost and I lost 100 dollars for nothing. Third red flag.

Claimed loss: 100 dollars

Desired outcome: Please refund my account

Tip for consumers:
No more real customer service, fake solution to solve the problems.

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Thumbnail of user paull1861
2 reviews
15 helpful votes
April 25th, 2022

Let me say their service is recommendable. I appreciated the discounts given to platinum members for their express mail service. And after only sending one letter I got a quick reply from a highly educated, sweet filipina lady. Thanks to the staff who were helpful in giving me tips and bits of advice to find my lady. I have had a delightful experience so far without exceptions. Congrats to your service... if there is one on the internet I can recommend without any doubts then it is certainly a foreign affair.

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it is a little pricey, but if you can, I would recommend the platinum membership with full services and discounts

Thumbnail of user davidl1002
7 reviews
39 helpful votes
April 29th, 2023

This site, and its affiliate, loveme.com, need serious updating on profiles. Their one category, 'Eastern Europe' hasn't been revised since Aug. Of 2021. How many of these who have "active files" are still living due to the Ukraine war? And why so many pictures in place that, when selected, are supplanted with "withdrawn by request"? C'mon guys, are you running a dating service or a high school yearbook?

Thumbnail of user joele147
1 review
12 helpful votes
June 1st, 2022

My experience with this company has been nothing less than amazing. I truly think of their team every day and can't thank all of them enough for what they have done for me. I had no idea what I was getting into when I traveled abroad but I couldn't have come to a better conclusion. Irina an I are very happy together. We haven't rung each other's neck yet so it's working. Thank you to all my friends in this episode of my ever changing life.

Thumbnail of user rogeru61
1 review
13 helpful votes
June 23rd, 2022

They definitely have the best website of all the online agencies. There is lots of information, especially for us wife-seekers. It's very detailed and in-depth, with well-working search engines. A much improved change made recently as to how the women's photos show up now. The media coverage is excellent as well. Most importantly, having the acknowledged engagements and marriages listed was a huge selling and convincing factor for me. The videos and photos are also a BIG plus for any guy checking out their offered services. My congratulations to their programmers and staff!

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Thumbnail of user gilc74
1 review
12 helpful votes
March 21st, 2023
Verified purchase

Except this one is here on American soil. I will admit when they first started out, they had real girls but NOW, they've managed to hire ghost writers who pose as the women in the photos but in real life, it's just a girl working for the agency with decent creative writing skills. Think about it gentleman, how in Gods name do so many stunning women want to compete for attention on one site? Preposterous. If these were real women, you wouldn't have to pay to open their letters and to send yours because the girl was so beautiful that you would utilize the agency to meet the girl as soon as you possibly could. But they string you along for as long as you're on the hook and eventually you either wise up or the girl abruptly ends communication with you because you either weren't a good match or she's found someone else or she's going back to school or her town is being evacuated…the list goes on and I've heard them all. The amount of money you pay in correspondence for 3mo is enough money to take a trip and find your own Nordic goddess. Trust me these people are absolute thieves. I'm a forensic analyst for handwriting, signatures, documents, and accounting. Have been for 11 years. I know when I'm being put on. If you read any of the 5 star ratings on this site, I clearly see that it's a plant. Someone created that bogus rating from within the organization just to keep their stars up. I am no fool. Never have been. Wake up, gentlemen.

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I included a photo of the “women’s letters” flooding my email that I made but how are so many stunning women writing to a profile that isn’t even complete except for a name? No photo, no occupation, nothing. Models so desperate to meet men they don’t know what they look like? Preposterous.
When I called them out, they gave me a full refund because I told them I know everything and would expose them.

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Thumbnail of user eddiec336
1 review
3 helpful votes
December 11th, 2023

I was a customer of AFA and I booked a tour a personal tour with a friend of mine to go to Kyiv in 2020. I've been keeping this to myself for a long time but the truth needs to come out. The truth is the girls that you see in the photos are not the girls who show up. They are truly deceiving everyone.! Do not waste your money, traveling to Ukraine, or any other of their tours they use Photoshop And filters to make the women look beautiful in reality is not the women's fault in my case all the women that I met had no idea that they were manipulating the photos.

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Thumbnail of user jonnys2
38 reviews
93 helpful votes
August 24th, 2022

These websites are largely selling you a fantasy. Like pretty much all of these Slavic-women dating websites, you have to understand how they work. The women are real, meaning they are real photos of real people - not CGI created photographs. But that does not mean you will communicate with the person in the picture, it's highly unlikely in fact. You have to understand what's going on in that part of the world (even before the invasion). So a beautiful woman poses for some glamor shots, gives the pictures to the website and they create a profile that is staffed by anybody anywhere. It's a nice fantasy but just don't get your hopes up. I give higher rating to this website than others because they do seem to organize legitimate tours -you can see the videos on their website. If you really want to meet a foreign bride, that's the way you have to do it - go there. It's possible to connect with the actual female via various social media accounts. Usually they do not reply or they will block you with some sort of "I am prohibited from contacting you outside the website" type message. Of course they're going to say that. If they're really looking for love that's not the response you get.

Thumbnail of user anthonyb1791
3 reviews
12 helpful votes
April 1st, 2022

Thank you for such a wonderful site. You really do deliver what you say! I have been a member for 2 months and I have more addresses and girls writing to me than I know what to do with. I'm a fairly good looking young guy, but I'm not used to having to turn down beautiful women, however since I've met a couple of girls worth visiting, I've decided that I no longer need further addresses. Your site is great and the responses have been swift. Keep up the great work!

Tip for consumers:
If you have the resources and a bit of time to search, you just might find your diamond in the rough.

Thumbnail of user johnd7435
1 review
6 helpful votes
December 18th, 2022

In my opinion, this is a predatory dating site that takes advantage of vulnerable, lonely, gullible, and ill informed men seeking female companionship and long term loving relationships. The messages sent and received in the site are scripted by FA employees and designed to entice multiple contacts and generate payments associated with each interaction. The photos represented on the site are of women mostly 30-40 years old who are very attractive and certainly not a cross section of real world women. Looking closely you can identify photo shoot locations and props, as well as a lot of photo retouching. I exchanged communications with one of FA's owner's after a fraudulent interaction (my only message) and was amazed at how transparent and shallow his explanations were. I advise researching the BBB complaints about this company. Beware!

Thumbnail of user milesl37
2 reviews
13 helpful votes
June 16th, 2022

The quality of service I received from this agency, both here in the U.S. and in Colombia was top of the line. From the very first emails, to listening to the Monday (or was it Tuesday) conference calls where they answered questions and offered advice. To using their service for sending flowers, handling translated phone calls to Ramona, and for the GREAT service I received in Colombia when I went down there the first time. Great work!

Thumbnail of user noahb205
2 reviews
14 helpful votes
May 28th, 2022

Thank you for your membership service. It was very professional, well organized and complete with great support whenever I had a question or needed help on an issue. My questions were quickly answered.

Thumbnail of user stanleyw179
2 reviews
12 helpful votes
May 16th, 2022

I just returned from an AFA tour in Mexico City and let me tell you, these socials were something else. It's the exact opposite of the American bars where have 10 guys to a few girls. Here, it's about 3 or 4 women to 1 guy. The women were definitely not on the shy side. Beautiful ladies approached me and introduced themselves. They wanted to know about me and where I was from, what I did. This social was very well organized, drinks were flowing, catered food and entertainment were all top-notch. It was an incredible time. Thank you a foreign affair!

Thumbnail of user toddw35
1 review
13 helpful votes
April 4th, 2023

I recently took a trip to Cebu in the Philippines, coordinated by the company "A Foreign Affair" (AFA), and it was one of the most amazing experiences I've ever been a part of! It's like stepping into another world when it comes to meeting wonderful women who are sincerely interested in American men. If more American men knew of this option, I'm sure they would be flocking to The Philippines, Thailand, Columbia, and other countries that AFA offers tours to.

The women in the Philippines are as genuine and unspoiled as you could wish for. They're beautiful, appreciative and refreshingly simple; but smart with common sense that rivals or exceeds that of women in western countries. I think this has a lot to do with their close-knit families, and often taking responsibility for fellow family members.

AFA is impressively well organized, and facilitated the trip in a highly professional yet personalized manner. The attention paid to each and every client by AFA is beyond thorough. And the local Philippine staff possessed the same giving personalities that were present in the eligible ladies.

I believe the priorities of women in the Philippines are to meet men who are sincere, responsible and loyal (among other traits) - qualities they don't always find among men in their own countries - but do appreciate in American men.

Going to another country for love and marriage may seem like a long trek, requiring time and expense to accomplish. Yet dating in the U.S. also demands time and $$ - probably even more so. Consider that on just one AFA trip you'll meet hundreds of beautiful, young ladies. As opposed to slogging through months (and years) of expensive domestic dating, often leading nowhere. The choice seems pretty clear.

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Thumbnail of user olgav130
1 review
7 helpful votes
August 17th, 2023

I decided to sign up here to meet gentlemen from other countries. I filled an application and then I got a letter from a respectful, sincere and kind man who was sure what he wanted. I am now engaged to this man. We have spent wonderful time together. This was just what my heart needed. I am now applying for the U.S. visa to fly to America to get married.

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Thumbnail of user johne2150
1 review
12 helpful votes
May 23rd, 2022

I really felt like I was going to find my wife in the Philippines. I sensed a true calling to do that. But at the same time, I was single and I wanted to enjoy it. To travel around and experience different places. Then after meeting Gellie through this service and twice spending time with her in person, I felt like I had to end my search. We had gotten closer and closer and I found myself losing interest in going to anymore socials. I mean, the socials were fantastic, but I'm absolutely certain that I have found the one to spend the rest of my life with.

Thumbnail of user jacks1717
2 reviews
19 helpful votes
July 1st, 2022

My trip to Costa Rica went exceptionally well and I was pleased with their staff in San Jose. Gustavo was personable and understanding. His help was very important for me with the girl I had met. He had a solid relationship with his staff, the girls that were signed up and the interpreters. The interpreter I used many times was excellent. Her name was Jessica.

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Thumbnail of user isaiahg63
1 review
7 helpful votes
November 24th, 2023

I was really excited and a little nervous before I went to Colombia because this was my first time trying to do something like this. When I got there, I felt like a rockstar because there were so many beautiful women waiting outside as we walked in. I didn't know what to do. Everywhere I looked so many gorgeous women. I was just so amazed. It was nothing like I've ever experienced before. The women are so pleasing than in the United States. They welcome you and they don't feel so privileged like the women back home.

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Thumbnail of user lukeh255
2 reviews
11 helpful votes
June 9th, 2022

The social tour was great. It exceeded every expectation I had about the city. It's a beautiful place and the people were very friendly. The girls were stunning. I just can't say enough about it.

Thumbnail of user edh667
1 review
10 helpful votes
June 19th, 2023

This is something I've always wanted to do but I never knew there was an opportunity to do this, to actually go abroad. I looked up a-foreign-affair.com online and saw all of these single men expressing how much fun they had, how they met the girl of their dreams on this special tour. I decided to just make a change. I didn't want to stay in the United States, go through the same routine that I've been going through of trying to find a lady. Your mentality is totally different when you come to a different country, especially to Colombia. I just wanted to make that change. There was nothing like this in the States. It was way more than anything. This was an actual experience.

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Thumbnail of user davidn2875
2 reviews
3 helpful votes
March 20th, 2024

I tried to keep my expectations low. But you know, my expectations were massively exceeded when I experienced it. It's been an incredible tour. It is very real. I used to procrastinate because why would I pay thousands of dollars to get rejected here when I can get rejected for free in America? You don't get rejected there. It's worth it. It's worth the money. It's worth the time. It's worth the effort because there's genuine connections. If you come here and you want a family, you want children, you're stable financially, you're gold. They'll go after you. They'll pursue you, but you at the same time have to earn it.

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