Am not surprised at all that some people have negative things to say about this website. They must have used a wrong approach and instead of blaming themselves, they decide to shift the blame t the website. I have been using this website for months now and I have had no reason to be bitter. That is part of life anyways, no matter how good anything is, there are people out there who will still find fault with it. Negative reviews about online dating used to bother me before but not anymore. I focus on having fun with my girls.