Signed up to this over the xmas break and been pretty much addicted ever since. Rather than hitting porn sites ive been putting my pent up (sexual frustration lol) energy into sending out messages to chicks on the site and after a slow start (I used to copy and paste the same $#*! but not im realising the trick is to write make some kind of initial comment about the specific girl your messaging) now things are really taking off. Wish I had joined when I first split up with my ex, all that time wasted on tube sites when I could have been doing the real thing... doh!