I started out being honest about being a single mom of 4. I consider myself to be a pretty girl. I did get a lot of views but the only "winks" I had were from freaky older guys that were not my preference. I sent emails to a few guys I was matched with and never had a response. Then I decided to test if it was the fact that I was a single mom so I changed my summary and left that out... sure enough within minutes I had all kinds of winks and messages. These guys are looking for hot girls with no kids... good luck to them! Welcome to the real world!