You get message by women who say they want to meet you right away you get back to them and try to make arrangements to meet and no one will meet no one will make any arrangements to contact or make any communication outside of the site. Everything is to keep you on the site to keep me communicating on the site as long and as often as possible. Nobody wants to get together.
If you blew off somebody for this reason, they will contact you two or three weeks later with apparently no memory that you've had four conversations with them before so they might all be bots who knows but don't expect to meet anybody ever or have any actual conversations or date.
For god sakes don't give them money!