First of all- you pay a minimum fee per month for 3 months. This is automatically renewed unless you notify them. NEXT- if you even want a person to "message" you- you have to pay over an extra $20 per month. There are not many real (as opposed to imaginary) men on the site. Many supposed people have a made up name, without any profile information whatsoever. An example of a name on the site was "gonnaget it". So, how could they even allow that name to register as a user with "no" information? Big dissapointment. Many people with just a name- no picture or information! I've attached a picture. Don't waste your money.