Wish I had read these reviews first. I was only on the site for about 3 or 4 days last week and so got burned. I agree, I came to the realization that it just be one or two people on there using various profiles to attract women. None of them are actually here.
They want you to stop your search and cancel all of your other dating sites. One of the guys I was dealing with told me he was in Africa on business and actually called me from there (stupid on my part). When I got suspicious, he would call in an effort to keep it going. So have a fraud alert with the big three. No I did not send money but boy did he beg to get it!
STAY AWAY! This is a major scam!