If you get a message, you MUST click on the Profile & IF there's a heart in the profile photo, click on it! Physical Contact Not Possible is what you will see. So if you just want to waste your time & Credit$ on worthless chit chat then go for it! Otherwise do as I suggest to save you a lot of wasted time. The ONLY contacts that didn't have a heart in the profile photo were women from other states. I hope this helps you all out, MEN & WOMEN BOTH! Beware this site! It's addictive. Your friend Hobbit7769 PS This is a Foreign Website & you will be charged $1.30 extra whenever you purchase Credits & you can't contact them by phone or on the Website... I tried! I'm 70 y/o & I wasted $500+ on this site & never got a face to face in 4 months. I went back & reread the terms & conditions & THAT'S where I read about the heart in the profile photo being models or professional scammers just out to make some Foreign Company money. YOU may think that these people want a relationship but they lie & just want you to keep chatting with them so they make more money! What a SCAM!