As a card carrying cougar I felt I should leave a quick review for this site as its served me well so far and im sure it will keep doing me proud. Ive used this site for casual flings, coffee dates and even had one serious thing from it (a string of dates with a guy in his early 30s but ultimately it ran its course). Would say its a really good site for older women as ive never had any problem in the New York area anyway.