While supposed to be a dating site, it is reality more of a social interaction site. Some people do date off the site, but most participate in on line discussions and debates. Overall many members have quite progressive and left wing views, so if that is not your cup of tea, you may want to look else where. If you are intellectually open minded, it can be an intriguing site. I have seen some men come on the site and make sexist comments and then wonder why they are trashed by the women on the site, ah, Duh? It is not a perfect site, as no site is. There are on going attempts to have the site evolve to smooth out perceived bumps. It is free, so worth a serious look for some people. Humanist.com is a mirror site, so you end up on it if you join Agnostic.com. Kind of like one room with two doors that have different names to them. No one who stays really pays any attention to that aspect, as really it is seamless.