I concur with other reviewers on this site. I was led from another dating site to Perdate. The girl had the same scam lines, and over 3 months she contacted me twice, her text appeared to be a bit frantic. The first time I gave her a casual reply then left it at that. The second time she started IM with me. She told me that she would rather chat with me on Perdate. I suggested free apps such as Line and Viber and We Chat. She insisted on Perdate. Anywho, she want to chat her life story with me when all of the sudden the app interrupts me and says I cannot chat anymore unless I purchase a VIP membership $99 USD per month. Meanwhile, she is in the background coaxing me with lines like I want to have your baby. I love you etc. I deleted the app at that point when I realized it was a scam. Final word: TOTAL SCAM, STAY AWAY, YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED!