I found that most of the guys that contacted me on this site were very pushy to text using my real phone number or other platform instead of trying to get to know me a little first. I was VERY clear I was interested in LTR only - not hookups, but I suspect most men on there only care about casual hookups. Huge turn off for me. It was a gross experience for me. Another experience where a bigger woman is being taken advantage of or not being respected for who she is. Very sad.
Dear J N,
We apologize for your unwelcoming experience. We have zero-tolerance towards members of the nature you described. Unfortunately, it is extremely hard for us to verify the real intentions of the members as most dating sites do not require any form of formal identification to register and most members use their private email address to communicate with members.
It is very sad that a small minority of dishonest people will make such a negative impression of our site, as the vast majority of the members registered with us are honest.
We do our best to remove these people from our site, deleting any profiles showing dubious photos or information, as soon as we see them, however, we also rely on our valued members who kindly report to us any suspect or fake profiles they find on our site.
In addition, Our fraud prevention team works 24/7 to remove non-genuine profiles. If you would like to report a suspicious profile, please submit a ‘report abuse’ form or contact us at www.bbwcupid.com/en/help/helpdesk