I was afraid of the ridicule I might receive from my church friends if they found out I had contacted Hailey. However I had experienced some very unusual things and felt I had to decide for myself whether this was for real. I contacted Hailey who surprised me when she knew that my parents had passed. I had been avoiding visiting their graves for 20 years. I had finally gone a few days earlier and took them flowers. Hailey said my parents told her to thank me for the flowers.