I think your find "Lee C" who posted a positive review here is an alias for Mr Harris who owns the site your talking about!
He also left a negative review on the SAME day for my site
www.Local-Swingers.co.uk. Unlike his site, when a paid member contacts you on LS, you can reply for free without having to pay! Thats how it should be done in my opinion.
At least here the truth will come out eventually and about time.
How convenient that you have to pay to reply to messages you rec.