Pink wink sends you random emails from other members showing interest, when you contact these people they did NOT send the email. I have even check the "Who has viewed you" button and it will showed they have viewed you, when they in fact HAVE NOT! Then you look like an idiot contacting these people and they have no clue that you got a fake "interest" email from them... I was a gold member but dropping it now.
And to add insult to injury Gold members have to tolerate tons up pop up ads and a banner that pops up and makes your page jump everytime you change the page your looking at. This had potential to be one of the best lesbian dating sites, but clearly greed is going to ruin their reputation.