As others have said, lots of messages as a non-paid member and messages asking you to meet them at another site that also try to get you to join by paying. Got a small gift card and signed up for 20 days and confirmed that no responses to messages after that. Put in a support ticket and they replied that my messages were being delivered. B.S. Dont waste a nickel on this scam site.
Took 5 times to enter order due to website crashing, closing order. Twice with PayPal and twice with credit card. Of course it doesn't retain info when you log back in - frustrating.