After much deliberation I decided to try AshleyMadison.com again. Being one of those who had their details posted online, this took a lot of thought but in the end, I think enough time has passed and in theory, theyll now be more secure than ever (its like how after a plane crash the airline with the problems is the safest to travel on). Anyway, my wife doesnt follow the news much and doesnt seem to suspect im up to anything so its not like what happened really screwed my life up in any way. Ive been using NoStringsAffair.com since the AM issues and its going so well that I figure, why not get back to AM and double my chances. These two together, if AM keeps working as hard to win me back, could be an epic combination. The women on both are mostly real and understand the need for discretion in fact in a lot of cases they are more paranoid than I am about meeting up! So overall im glad I came back to the site for another go, if theyre smart theyll find a way to turn a negative into a positive. If not, ill stick with NoStringsAffair and porn!