So far, I've been a paid customer for almost 3 weeks and so far the ONLY men who have contacted me are nothing but scammers. What a waste of money. I paid for 3 months though, so I'll stick it out, but wow this site sucks. There are hardly any posts in the forums as well, so it's just more proof that most "members" are only scammers from Nigeria and Africa and other countries. *sigh