Although I mention OURTIME, it applies to any dating site. After sending thoughtful, well written messages to ladies, more often than not, a male will be ignored. Yes, there probably are a small percentage of fellows, tall & seemingly with status, who may receive responses. What I do not understand is this: I see the same ladies with their profiles month after month on a couple of sites. Some appear quite nice looking or at least decent looking. Are they probably ignoring other males, as they ignored me, & truly feel that it is just a question of time before the ideal gentleman reaches out to them? Wouldn't they understand that they are bypassing plenty of good men, rejecting almost all, but not finding what they fantasize about? They seem intelligent but Einstein had a famous saying about expecting a different result using the same methods over & over (month after month). As the months roll on, doesn't it become apparent to these elitist ladies that their quest, is for the most part, a fantasy? What do they really want?
Some have titles, "Looking for Mr. Perfect, or Looking for Mr. Right." What does that really mean to these ladies on the same site month after month? Are they fooling themselves? They are frustrating me, but not fooling me.