I've been a member of Benaughty for 2 months now and in my experience only about 1 in 20/30 members you will really interact with you and seriously wants to meet you. So why am I giving this site a good review? Because those few genuine women are absolutely worth the hustle!
I've met one girl within those two months and had a really naughty cyberchat session with another one. It is possible that the results are better on sites with more active female members, like Casualdating4u and Aff but I'd also add Benaughty to the list of sites where you can have some action.
Let me tell you a little bit about myself: I am decent looking and know how to communicate. Maybe that makes the difference.