That One G.

I have been using HILY.com for a year. It was a fun app at first. Picking out contacts i thought i would vibe with. We even matched a few times. Somehow no conversations came about. I figure I'll keep trying and still no actuall conversations.

Now I have come to a point where I no longer have people to match with. The HILY solution is to change my criteria. So, now I'm 57 and HILY thinks I should date 18, 19, 20 year old girl's. Great ego boost for me but I'm a creep to the girls. My other option according to HILY is to look further away. I'm looking 1.5 hours away to start because I am right between two big cities. I'm ok wìth that distance as a max. How much further should I have to look? Let's ask HILY... further. BS further my a.

What is the problem. We start out with a stack of possible matches. You click yes and you have a chance to match. Say no and that person vanishes into the ether never to be seen again. It is either like everyone, only be a little picky or be picky. You only get one go. I can see only one go at a match. What about the two people that have never tried to match. Anyway.

You are at the bottom of your stack with nothing left to do but stare at the screen hoping a new user joines so you can be less picky. Of course, you can always look 2 hours or 4 or 6 or 10 hours away. That is the HILY way.