The B.

I am Pearl Lee's brother and have known her my entire life. I use to look up to my big sister and would do anything for her. That has all changed! Today I completely despise her! If you were to ask me who has done the MOST HARM in my life, it would be Pearl Lee. In my opinion, Pearl Lee is a Narcissistic Sociopath! She is deceptive and EVIL!

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https://www.verywellmind.com/understanding-the-narcissistic-sociopath-*******

A Narcissistic Sociopath is cold and callous but will also be seeking the admiration of others and will believe that they are entitled and deserve it. They will have a disdain for others and think it's okay to exploit and dispose of them in whatever way it helps them get ahead or benefit financially.

A sociopath don't think about other people unless they can benefit from them; a narcissist only think of others in terms of how they reflect back on themselves. Together, the result is a person on a quest for wealth, power and control, who uses the love and admiration of others as a tool to dominate and manipulate, and who goes about all of this thinking that it is their right and that they are justified. There will be no guilt, no apologies, and no remorse coming from a narcissistic sociopath.

Even if these behaviors cause significant problems for this person, they may find it very difficult to stop the problematic behaviors. After all, it's all just a game and the people are pawns.
When the narcissistic sociopath gets tired of those people or they aren't serving a useful role and not benefitting from them, they will be cast aside.

They may be polished, well-dressed, successful, and charming. They may take part in charitable causes or activities, not because they care, but because it makes them look good.

Some will be physically aggressive while others may be harmful on an emotional level. Regardless of the harm that they do, these people believe they are exempt from the moral code that everyone else follows, which is what makes them so dangerous.

Both narcissists and sociopaths may be charismatic and charming, unreliable, controlling, selfish, and dishonest. They both feel entitled and deny responsibility for their actions. They usually lack empathy, emotional responsiveness, and insight into their personality disorder.

Sociopaths are more calculating while narcissists are more reactive. Sociopaths might even apologize or put themselves down if it serves some greater purpose in the game they are playing.

Unfortunately, narcissistic sociopaths are good at finding the right people to manipulate. They can see when someone is trusting. They know good people will make excuses for their bad behavior because they don't want to see it for what it really is.

If you know someone who fits the criteria for a narcissistic sociopath, it is important to recognize that it's unlikely that person will change or seek help. Your best option is to arm yourself with this knowledge, set strong boundaries, and distance yourself from this person as much as possible.

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I'm not rich and I don't make a 6 figure salary. I just grew up trusting my big sister, listened to her advice and invested my money with her in my early 20's. But now I know Pearl Lee is cold and callous; she manipulated and exploited my trust from the start. Ever since I became an adult, its like I owe her.
She turned my retirement account as her own personal ATM machine. While at Janney, almost every month when she needed to make a little more commission, she just open my IRA account and with several clicks on the keyboard, executed a trade at my expense (over 140 trades in 4 short years).

When Pearl would take off her work hat and put on her sister hat, she is no different, still manipulative and deceptive (and Cheap). She would have me labor or chauffeur her around, achieve any deliverables she can maximize out of me all at no cost to her because we are "family", as she defines it. But if I needed anything significant from her or there was something she thought would benefit me, that exchange would never happen or there would be a pricetag. There was (and forever will be) a cost to her "generosity" and she made sure she got paid.

So to everyone who knows Pearl Lee - take note!
With several clicks on my keyboard, I am exposing Pearl Lee for who she really is - a fat, greedy Narcisstic Sociopath! She is very damaged and can't stop herself and will continue to exploit others for her self benefit, interest and gain. Family means absolutely nothing to her. She easily embraced estrangement rather than admitting guilt and making restitution. Beware and keep your distance from this malignant parasite!