The flirts sent are NOT sent by any of the actual users!
They are sent by the site's Administrator, to fool you into believing that you are being contacted by users.
When I responded to a flirt that I believed had been sent to me by a user --who had already "sent" me several messages, including an initial flirt, I became suspicious.
My suspicions were confirmed, when his reply to my question mark response was "I'm not sending you these flirts... I don't know what's going on... SMH."
I canceled my renewal and deleted my account.
I will dispute ANY/ALL credit card charges if I see ANY charges dated after the one month payment period.