The amount of restrictions on that site is honestly ridiculous. Not only can you not message people, but your profile changes are heavily moderated and censored; and even your username!
I wholeheartedly recommend Tingler to anyone considering using PS, because it's clearly designed in a way to not exploit a vulnerable community just looking to find love. None of those restrictions apply.
To ensure all PS members’ security, we have to manually review each profile and photo. We do not accept fake profiles. Any suggestion, please feel free to contact us at support@positivesingles.com.