First used it 20 years ago (2003) and a 15 yr marriage, I tried it. Just don't! Signed up & had to pay prem membership to view other's photos and emails. Sent out over 200+ personal likes/ emails. Never received a single like/email back. (Only a few views) Don't have a profile if you're not going to meet up in person. (There has to be restrictive measures to this.) A lot of fake, flakey and shallow people out there.