When I visited the site and created a profile, all of these IMs flew my way - from people as close as 5 miles from me. As soon as I signed up with my credit card - the "traffic" disappeared completely. I called customer service - some kid told me he could see someone contacted me - it was one of the "prepayment IMs". Then he had the audacity to try to sell me an upgrade. This site is a waste of time. I will be cancelling before my 1-day subscription ends because the autorenew - beware of that as well.