This site was originally created and run for about 6 years by a military spouse who built a terrific thing. It was sold and flipped, and is now owned by an offshore entity who has massively changed it, to the point that people are actively worried about the security of information. Paying members are having their privileges stripped without notice, threads are being deleted under capricious and arbitrary phantom "rules," and there is a general distrust. This is the LAST place I would want anyone with any ties to the military to go.